Forgiving Like God

Forgiveness is not something I do well. I tend to dwell on things, to replay them, to plan rebuttals and arguments, to justify myself. I might say the words “I forgive you” but my actions and thoughts don’t always coincide. What is forgiveness? Is it really that big of a deal?

The Benefit of the Doubt

We have all been there; let down by someone we trusted. Unfortunately, it happens in every relationship. The issue is not to find someone who will not let you down, but how to deal with the pain when they do. It is natural to want to shut them out, never trust them again, and retreat into seclusion to never be hurt by another. But is that the best way to react?

A Letter to the Hurting

I recently wrote this letter to my niece who is going through a really hard time, but the principles apply to many. I have shared portions of it in the hopes that it will help others as well.