Are You Too Dependent On Your Spouse?

We see it so often in movies and books; a couple meet and their romance is culminated when they express their feelings in a “you complete me” or “you are the world to me” moment followed by a life of bliss. While I’m sure we all realize this is unrealistic (the technical/historic definition of the word romantic is exaggerated liar) I think many of us still live in view of the idea that our needs will ultimately be met in our spouse. I definitely bought into that idea and never knew it was wrong until many years into marriage. But why is this not true?

What About Love

The concept of love has changed in the past years to the point that many now, even churches, do not know what love really is. When you say love, people think of romance and fluffy feelings. It has become something that you cannot control, it just happens, and as a result comes and goes at its own will seemingly. But is that biblical?